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Thoughts On: Gossip

An excerpt from my Morning Pages last week...


Yeah, I know that part of me loves it and enjoys the feeling of superiority it gives... It's nice to have your hurt feelings validated by another... But it doesn't do anyone any good. Plus, its all just speculation (about what is/will be) and reminiscing/dredging up old hurts & memories (about what happened in the past) and none of it is actually true! Plus I don't enjoy the idea of other people talking about me, so I know it's not fair for her...

It occurs to me now that if I show her love, it's showing me love... and vice versa. The same is true of contempt – the more hate I sling her way, is just throwing that shiz in my own face... And I love myself too much to want to do that to myself!

Love it is then... It's a slow process, but I'm getting there.

♥

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